True and Fascinating Canadian History
Vet of the Month: December 2013
Reg.#23693, Corporal Donald Marvin Gavin
RCMP Vets. Ottawa, ON
'G' Troop Right Marker
I was very sad to hear today from family and friends that Don Gavin had passed away on November 24, 2013 in Kamloops, BC. Don was a fellow Troop mate in 'G' Troop 1964/65. We trained at 'Depot' Division beginning in mid August 1964.
The following note which explained Don's sudden and unexpected death was received from his son Jeffrey Gavin.
"It is with great sadness that I write you with the news of my father's passing on Sunday, November 24th 2013. The suddenness has been a shock to us all, especially his loving wife of more than 45 years, my mother Isabel.
Dementia and Alzheimer's disease are prevalent in my father's family ad his own father succumbed to this debilitating condition. Dad had been exhibiting some of the symptoms, including slight memory loss and other minor incidents. A family meeting was planned over the Christmas season, but we believe that the it progressed much more quickly than we noticed.
Dad died at his own hand, yet had not shown any signs of someone who would take their own life. This episode, without a doubt, was not a conscious thought. Our family hopes anyone who might be facing a similar circumstance will be able to avoid our tragedy and seek help sooner, rather than later.
I will hold dear the memories of the great man who was my father. His legacy is that of immense kindness and his desire to make the world a better place, evidenced by his decision to serve his country in the RCMP. His fair treatment of all people, regardless of race, religion, or culture, earned him the respect of all with whom he interacted. After moving on from the Force, that urge to serve continued with 2 terms on the School Board in Kamloops. All the while, his devotion and dedication to his family was far more than the average man. He was the coach, the driver, the science experiment helper, and the Dad who was always there.
Dad also didn't see people as strangers, just friends he hadn't met yet. Always willing to help a neighbour or anyone else in need, be it with a tool or a helping hand, Dad was there. We will miss him greatly, as I am sure you will as well.
I am certain you know that this is an incredibly difficult time for Mom, Jennifer, Shawn, and myself and will understand that communications may be limited. Dad's wishes were not to have a formal service. Please celebrate his life as we all are.
Mom asked if you could please pass on this news to G-Troop.
Thanks so much, Sincerely,
Jeffery Gavin"
Don's death is tragic on a number of levels. No one expects a family member to commit suicide so its suddenness affects everyone. One is also left with a sense of regret because there was not sufficient time for intervention. The newspapers today mentions Canadian soldiers who die by suicide which adds even more poignancy to Don's untimely death.
His death has affected all of us. 'G' Troop hopes that Don has found peace. xR. I. P.
In the years ahead, 'G' Troop will miss him.
Don joined the Force in August 1964. He served in 'E' & 'N' Divisions.
Reporting from Fort Healy,
J. J. Healy
December 23, 2013
